I always thought it was very cool that either deliberately or through personal preference, Dean's sex scenes are really a lot more like 'love' scenes - if he has the remotest of feelings for his partner, it's all very slow and touchy and almost worshipful with ,yes, Dean on the 'bottom' quite a bit. It's cool to see a guy on tv having no issues with letting the woman be in control.
And Sam's sex scenes - he is *so* aggressive. Whether it's all the bitey stuff with Madison or the physically picking a woman up and manipulating her body when he was soulless, he's *very* 'on top'. And yet, of course, out of bed, the roles are often reversed and Sam is the one shown to more often be sensitive and gentle to witnesses and such. Makes for some awesome dynamics and speculation.
I, too, dislike all the baggage that comes from the top/bottom junk, and usually my characters just switch off whenever the mood strikes them. Sometimes one *does* prefer it a certain way, and that's fine, but it's about them as a whole person and never 'This is Joe Smith, a Top!'.
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Date: 2013-07-24 03:28 pm (UTC)I always thought it was very cool that either deliberately or through personal preference, Dean's sex scenes are really a lot more like 'love' scenes - if he has the remotest of feelings for his partner, it's all very slow and touchy and almost worshipful with ,yes, Dean on the 'bottom' quite a bit. It's cool to see a guy on tv having no issues with letting the woman be in control.
And Sam's sex scenes - he is *so* aggressive. Whether it's all the bitey stuff with Madison or the physically picking a woman up and manipulating her body when he was soulless, he's *very* 'on top'. And yet, of course, out of bed, the roles are often reversed and Sam is the one shown to more often be sensitive and gentle to witnesses and such. Makes for some awesome dynamics and speculation.
I, too, dislike all the baggage that comes from the top/bottom junk, and usually my characters just switch off whenever the mood strikes them. Sometimes one *does* prefer it a certain way, and that's fine, but it's about them as a whole person and never 'This is Joe Smith, a Top!'.